Cool. But I've read there's a breakthrough.
Sorry bout that.
Well, you could, in a subtle way indicate your impatience to get to the heart of what you'd like. But at the same time keep it slow while you go. Don't go from a mild spanking to directly drawing plans for a full fledged torture dungeon.
But since your boyfriend has gone to explore all by himself, maybe things will get to 'the next level' soon.
JJ