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I will pipe in on this you will either hate what I say or love it.When you get married you make a sacred vow to your partner in front of your family friends and god. I have yet to hear of anyones vowes stating I will only be faithful to you if I am happy. I will only be faithful to you if I get what I want. I will only be faithful to you if I do not find someone new and exciting.

If your read that carefully the term "I" alot no we no us. this is a sign of the times everyone only cares about themselfs. To those who say they cheat to stay with thier husband and children?????? WTF? does that really make any sence to you at all? That is like saying ohhh I am going to go shoot myslef to avoid being murdered in some random act of violence or an accident or something along those lines. If you really careed about your kids you would split instead of the very real and very possible really nasty divorce.

Now to those who do it online behind your spouces back online. Well this is where people will say its online and its really not cheating it is online........Well I have seen stated by these very same people that an online relationship is very real and it is a real relationship.....hypocrytes use one side of the arguement to excuse it and the other to defend it.

I have been in that stagnet relationship I have a child I lost total sexual interest in my partner I stayed with her for financial reason for the child for any and every reason anyone can come up with and guess what I did not cheat but I came to the realization that it was doing me her and the child harm...kids are alot smarter than people give them credit for you might not think they know there is something wrong but they might.

I have yet to hear a good excuse to cheat and stay with your spouse, Now if its ok with your spouse then it is ok..... to each their own.

Plus lets not forget one fact the cheaters should not forget once a cheater allways a cheater