Humiliation is a great thing. Provided, that any humiliation does not do permanent psychological damage. What would cause damage in one person, is not the same as another.

Private humiliation is wonderful. Knowing that one person is the only other who will know about it, is a turn on for me. The fear that the general masses will find out is diminished, because the odds of it happening are very low. Public humiliation however is still a turn on for me, but it causes a lot of mental grief after the fact. I avoid that at all costs. There's different types of public humiliation. Wearing a plug in public, or going out in underwear or no underwear, is still private. Even though its out in public, no one else knows. Being made to walk out in public in shackles, is another story.

With name calling, call me a slut, a dirty cunt, while playing and i'm fine. Call me those any other times and you'll have to find your balls. Good girl works all the time. But with me, call me just "girl" and i can't stand it. "girl" is too demeaning.

It all just boils down to us individually really. I think the men are just more vocal publically about wanting it, but I do know that many women enjoy, and want some humiliation.