Quote Originally Posted by master 327-834-200 View Post
Simply wearing a collar is a form of humiliation but I have read on many an occasion tender and loving words written by subs who have chosen to wear their Masters collar and the profound effect this has on them. This, I feel, is becuse deep down they know it to be a humiliating act but because of how (and with who) it takes place the humiliation is converted into pleasure.
How is wearing a collar a form of humiliation? I can imagine that wearing a collar I didn't want, from someone I don't respect, would be humiliating, but I don't think that's what you were talking about.

If I accept someone as my mistress/master and wear their collar willingly, that's not humiliating in the least. It's a physical proof that I'm accepted and valued by someone who I deeply cherish. That's like the opposite of humiliation. I would be proud to wear a collar like that.