Quote Originally Posted by blythespirit View Post
Maybe you're simply a "switch?"
I agree with blythe; it's likely you are a switch Rowan.

I don't think your physical size has anything to do with it but yes, I can understand your perception and I do have to say....."a great big Dominant, mmmmmm, that's just yummmmo!"......hehehe

Sounds like you have the Dominant part sussed but are having confusion only about the submissive side of you.

It's likely that all you need is a truly strong Dominant/Mistress that brings out your sub naturally, which makes you resist your desire to be defiant to her. There are Dominants in our lives that bring that out of us instantly and naturally and it feels wonderfully splendid.

No need to question what you "should" or shouldn't be, just enjoy

It's the boat I'm in currently; although I'm not a switch in any regard, I'm a very strong personality and am independent and in control of everything in my life. The Master that is very strong is the only Master I will be able to submit entirely to