A lively thread will not only deal with the questions originally posed, but will follow up incidental matters too. I don't think anyone has posted anything scary on this topic (except me perhaps - lol) and it will get back to the original question if anyone has any more to add. Then it will fade away or it will fly off at a complete tangent and deal with something else.

I love Isabelle's questions. She has a knack of exposing areas of D/s that people should have clear ideas about, but who too often have muddled opinions. And I'm one of the most muddled, I think.

TYWD